Emosexcoaching begins where culture ends,
where culture fails, starting with giving meaning to that urge.
By putting words on things. By learning to say them. To express them.
And by doing so, to humanize them.
Because culture is language, And a culture where language is banned is
not culture but a primal horde.
Hence, to put words on your most violent sexual urges is not only a form
of therapy, but a matter of culture!
It's a no-nonsense kind of
nonsense.
The nonsense to give sense to what is non,
To what is odd.
When you fantasize about rape,
and raping another, that is odd enough.
Our culture does not help you
to give meaning to that urge to rape.
And without giving meaning to that urge,
there is a certain probability
that this urge will be either acted out
or suffered as the
victim of rape.
Rape is a chaotic form of behavior.
Chaotic because not coded. It's mute.
Emotions
Emosexcoaching is an emotions-focused progressive and alternative coaching approach that encompasses pedoemotions consulting (PEC), emosexual integration, and healing of split-patterns in the communication structure of our inner selves. My personal approach to coaching clients is a form of reality coaching in the sense that it's based upon what Sigmund Freud called the reality principle. The reality principle means that libido has been consciously accepted and integrated so that the natural pleasure function can fully play out its beneficial self-regulatory effects upon psyche and soma.
Publications
Pierre F. Walter, Emotional Flow: A Holistic Approach to Healing Sadism, Newark: Sirius-C Media Galaxy LLC, 2007
Pierre F. Walter, Love and Abuse Toolkit: Healing Early Child Trauma and Developing Emotional Sanity, Newark: Sirius-C Media Galaxy LLC, 2007
Pierre F. Walter, The Science of Emonics: A Systemic Analysis of Emotional Identity in the Etiology of Sexual Paraphilias, Newark: Sirius-C Media Galaxy LLC, 2007
This
is your other half, your
anima. Do you know it? It's what you most
probably have deeply repressed. If you are are conscious pedophile
or to avoid this ugly word, a self-aware childlover, you will have
accepted your yin nature, the female
half in you, which are all the values associated with your right
brain, such as for example creative imagination, associative
thinking, tenderness, tactile pleasure, love for art and
spontaneity, and a longing for inner and outer peace. Those of you,
however, and you are in the majority
worldwide, who have repressed all this, the
macho men, those who are violently opposed against loving
children, you have a problem while you suppose those who call
themselves pedophiles had this problem. It's not those who are
conscious of difficult-to-handle longings, but those who repress
them and thus have disowned the inner selves associated with those
longings. It's you, the pedophile haters, the persecutors, that need
therapy, that need support; it's you who bring war and destruction
in this world, it's you, the Oedipal Heroes, who most need the kind
of counseling I am offering here.
What is Emosexcoaching?
Emosexcoaching pretty much is finding out about the mysterious woman in you, when you are a man, and about the mysterious man in you when you are a woman. You have to integrate the other half if you want to become whole.
Otherwise you remain fragmented. Rape is the urge to get connected with the other half by a not-so-nice form of communication. You can get there by means that are socially more accepted, just to avoid trouble. At the same time, you have to begin to love that rapist in you.
Otherwise you will stay on the hate-side of the world, and will never know the love-side of it. This love you wish to experience, you have to give it to yourself first.
Is Emosexcoaching only
for Pedophiles?
What is Pedophilia?
By
no means. Most men who long for tactile, emotional or sexual closeness with
children do not label themselves as
pedophiles.
And yet they may have once in a while or constantly strong urges for
experiencing oral, anal and/or vaginal intercourse with those considered, by
definition, in most societies, as children, boys, or girls, or both.
You may go on and hide yourself behind a façade of docile adaptation to society, but is that where your bliss resides?
What is your bliss?
Have you ever inquired about it? Have you ever thought what the hell made you love children so fervently, beautifully, passionately, so joyfully and against
any reason? Have you ever seen the beauty, or felt the intrinsic joy, the overwhelming creative madness in your love? Have you ever felt how abundant this love
is, how full of riches and what immense wealth it can create for children in this child-hating world? Have you ever inquired about the chance you have to be
a childlover? Have you ever seen the incredible sparkling beauty in your love, and in yourself?
If you are a novice to
loving children or have discovered already that you are not really attracted
to adult sexual partners, you are called upon to be more encompassing as you
were any time before, and to be more outgoing.
You are unique in your love
and your beauty as an angel for children in this world where children are conditioned to being
consumer puppets in our insane postmodern global consumer industry that I
came to call Oedipal Culture.
You are called upon to make the difference! Stop paranoia, stop fear, stop
accusing yourself, stop self-destruction altogether and contact me if you need help with
living your love peacefully and constructively, of if it causes you ongoing
depressions.
What is a depression?
Voice your Desire
It's your bliss
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